how to expand/resize parent after dynamicaly added child ?

You are using Control nodes as root nodes in your initializer.tscn, integerInput.tscn, and textLineInput.tscn. Control nodes don’t get their minimum size from its children and will let them be bigger if needed. Only Container sub-classes do.

Set the VBoxContainer child as the root node of these scenes and move the script to them. That should fix your issue.