Light occluder generates shadow for itself

4.3

For some reason in godot 4.3 the light occluders cast the shadow above their parent object, I have no idea why it happens or how to prevent it, or if there is a way to do something like a custom light occluder to prevent this

i don’t see what is wrong here, mind elaborate or show your tree nodes

On the left is how it should look and I want it, on the right is how it really looks, the light occluder generates the shadow above its parent object, something that should not happen

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Does anyone know the solution?